Although the word happiness and innocence is associated with children, there are some children who are characterized by depression and the loss of life for their loved ones.
The distressing here is the finishing of the eyebrows and almonds milled 24 hours a day and crying from the causes and sometimes without reason.
At first, the mother feels a kind of compassion and compassion for this child and remains on his shoulders and groaned at him thinking that this eliminates depression, but she soon find herself angry and do the severity of bad mood and decadence of this child
The sad child is present in many houses and has a special style in dealing with him
The most important reasons that affect the child's psyche and make him a sad child:
1 - not satisfy his need for sleep, that is, the child who does not take enough sleep has a great readiness to wake up with a depressed psychology.
2 - not taking enough food or energy that is made or depleted more than the food intake.
3 - the family that lives the child, it affects the psychological If the people surrounding the child who are angry for the simplest causes and nervous and mood variant and there is no day in the day for fun and mood, the child is affected and reflected in his personality and temperament few hours of fun or entertainment or foreplay with the child kills the psychological fun in the child .
4. Caffeinated foods such as chocolate and carbonated water cause mood swings in children.
5 - the presence of people harassing the child in school or in the club as if his colleagues say "Oh fat" or "skinny" and pass on it, because all this generates a feeling inside him less than his peers and dispel this feeling in the continuous crying.
6 - the presence of a new child in the family taken from the throne of the auction and attention Vihs that he was isolated and ostracized through the surrounding and no one cares about him as in the past.
The solution in the treatment of the sad child:
The indifference that we show him towards his pain and not to mention his status in front of others so as not to think that this advantage distinguish him from his peers continue his sad behavior and Istslh, and increase the number of hours of fun and play with him.
Try to talk to him as if a great person to know what is going on in the immortality and what are enabled themselves may be suffering from a certain phobia or fear and we do not know, and the dialogue must be based on the basis of safety, because the child will not reveal what the chest since the first attempt and therefore must work on Gain his confidence gradually before trying to explore the truth that drives him to this situation.
Add nutritional supplements from vitamins to food but they do not enrich healthy foods from fruits and vegetables.
Increase your child's self-confidence by telling him, for example, "Your cement is not a fault but on the contrary you will learn stronger than all your peers, but for our own benefit, apart from what they say, we have to start a healthy health program.
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